If you’re too much of a loser to have an affair the good old fashioned way then you’ll want to check out AshleyMadison.com. With a slogan like, “Life is Short. Have an Affair.”, you can’t help but think if this site is for real, for real.
The Ashley Madison Agency, established in 2001, guarantees that if you’re married and looking to have an affair they’ll hook you up. They’re even advertising in the official 2009 Super Bowl program — you know ’cause those dudes are probably their prime demographic. And I just get a crack out of the Ashley Madison website:
Are you Married but Looking? Ashley Madison is the place for Married Dating.
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Ashley Madison is the world’s #1 Married Dating service specifically for ATTACHED men and women who are looking to have an Extra-marital Affair.
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Just create a FREE member profile and in seconds you can start meeting other members from your local area or abroad. You’ll have access to millions of member profiles, private photo sharing and live chat – all in a 100% SECURE and ANONYMOUS environment.
So tell me again, if its so easy and tempting to cheat on your husband or wife why does our country put such a heavy weight on the sanctity of marriage between a man and a woman when there are thousands of gay and lesbian couples fighting to be married in monogamous relationships?
Oh, and I love how they’re called the Ashley Madison ‘Agency’ as if that makes them sound less scandalous and more like a legit company doing good in the world. Tell me your thoughts. How do you weigh in?
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November 11th, 2008 at 2:10 pm
Cheating in any relationship,be it gay,lesbian or hetrosexual speaks about the very core of the person.You are ony as good as your word in any circumstance.Hopefully if we have come to something like this,(Asley Madison) they will all stay within themselves and the cheaters will cheat with other cheatersl
December 25th, 2008 at 9:09 pm
Just found out my husband was cheating, with someone for the last 4 years. No idea, he obviouslyused this site, he was a master at it. He actually thought he’d get away with it, till I caunght him 4 weeks ago. I’ll have a really hard time trusting him, and I’d like to tear her face off, if I run into her.
January 26th, 2009 at 10:59 pm
I am almost 24 and been married for 6 years now, I recently found ashley madison in my husbands email. I had his password sent to his email and discovered he has a profile on the site. He is in Iraq right now and when we were able to talk I confronted him about it. He claims a hacker had to create it and another profile on fling that I had found prier. I do not believe that for a second. There is one word I can use to express how the ashley madison site makes me feel and thats SICK! It is so sad to see how many people are on this site looking for someone to have an affair with. I hope more women and men that have husbands or wives on this site could find them and see it for themselves. I did and I wanted to know.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:59 pm
I am appalled by this website and everything it stands for, casual, meaningless sex for people who wish to betray the one they “love”… I’m currently engaged to a very trustworthy woman, whom I love beyond a shadow of a doubt, she had been hurt by past boyfriends in the past, boyfriends who would use this site had they the chance. It infuriates me so much to see that people would sink this low to not only use this ashleymadison, but to have created it in the first place. If I could I would beat the crap out of every member and drag them to their spouse or girl/boyfriend to fess up to what they have done… I guess what frustrates me the most is that there is nothing to be done by this. I will just to treat my fiancee as best I can and hope it makes up for some of the assholes out there.
May 15th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
One night I couldn’t sleep so I decided to get up and surf. I was looking for a web site I had been to earlier that day in my computers history and I found out my Fiancee had been going to the Ashely Madison site. I confronted him and he denied it all - but in the history files I could get into everything that he had looked on the site that week. Once I had proof that he had been going regulary he fessed up to surfing - but not meeting up with anyone…this makes cheating WAY TOO EASY for guys. I am still trying to decide and figure out if I should let him try to regain my trust and if I willl marrry him. WE hadn’t set a date for our wedding - but now I’m not about to set any date anytime soon. I have never been a snoop - but this site also makes it WAY TO EADY TO GET CAUGHT
June 21st, 2009 at 11:05 am
I had caught my ex fiancé on Ashley Madison and it absolutely felt like the most humiliating violating betrayel a woman could ever imagine. Knowing I was having unprotected sex with the love of my life and finding him prostituting himself online for sex was horrifying. I felt he put my life and health in danger and worse he was not even discreet about it. He posted 3 pictures including one I was in but was cutout and his name for the entire world to see. Be posted that he was in a bad relationship and wanted a sweet lady to have fun and sex with. I will never recover the emotional damage it has caused me. To find out more about it I posted my own discreet profile and within 2 days I had over 1000 emails from every creepy pervert in the area asking to meet me for sex pay for sex and do for me what I don’t get at home.I was sent xxx pics and I didn’t have a picture on my profile or anything all these men want is sex. I could have aids 300 pounds they just wanted to hookup. I paid no money to create a profile and was sent credits to talk to men and hundreds of porno pics. I never replied once and was so horrified by the experience I shut it all down I felt raped to be honest in every way. There is no excuse to cheat just be honest and get our if your relationship instead of selfishly destroying lives. I’m totally disgusted that there are so many pervered cheaters and proud cheaters. Only fools and losers in there and u made sure to take note of all the cheaters in my area. U never know u are looking at or talking to on those sites so don’t be naive. I Many women I know are on to this site and setting up profiles to catch there man red handed so just don’t be naive. Of course my ex lied and denied everything but the fact he had no respect for himself or for me was even worse then his intent to cheat. I have no respect for those sites and feel they are crawling with diseases. Women do a search and make sure your man is not there it’s for your own good.
August 10th, 2009 at 2:26 am
Hahahah get over you cry babies. This website is obviously for people who are not having a good sex life and not sexually attracted to who they love…but the fact is they love them and wanna stay with them for that fact. Don’t cry about how someone could do that to you…here is an idea…get better in bed! Or lose some weight to be more sexually attractive. Don’t blame the website for things you lack. Grow up and get over it.
September 5th, 2009 at 6:53 pm
Here’s a good one. Why don’t all you crybaby women start listening to dr laura radio program? Its true-if YOU were being the right kind of wife, your husband wouldn’t DREAM of cheating on you. How many of you are sweet? Sexually available, anxious, experimental with your man? Or do you just bitch, complain, nag? Do you pay more attention to your kids? Start acting like you did when you were his girlfriend. Be his wife and girlfriend. Give him what he wants at home. A loving, attentive, sweet and sexual wife and he’ll never cheat. Take care of your man-or guarantee yourself, cuz someone else willingly will. Look at women today- they dress like whores, and sleep with any man who says boo. Have some self respect women! Be a good wife or the sluts of today will screw him like there’s no tomorrow!
September 28th, 2009 at 1:13 pm
i agree with the guy above its sad when your going threw someones email to begin with so maybe your one’s with the problem. put out or get out
November 20th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
Wow, the last three people who posted are morons. Ever heard of sex addiction??? It’s not always (or necessarily ever) a woman’s fault her significant other cheats. And it works the other way too. If you can’t be honest in your relationship, get out of it. No sense destroying another person (especially one you say you love) emotionally. The people using this website need a therapist, not a prostitute.
November 27th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
northern kentucky, kochava, and xranger…you three are not even retarded, i respect the retarded…you guy…wow…..to think theres people out there who think its ok to disrespect someone so quickly and relentlessly…You will not live happy lives, mark these words and remember them well when you realize your life has been a joke…Its about respect.show me respect and i’ll show you right back…wow.hopefully you guys are too stupid to realize your lives suck and that you ruin the lives of those around you. Thank you
December 11th, 2009 at 8:32 pm
I can’t believe how people no longer take responsibility for their actions anymore? If you’re not happy in a relationship it is your responsibility to act like an adult and discuss it with your partner. If you are not happy, and are not able to resolve it then GET OUT of the relationship! Being unhappy in a relationship does not give ANYONE the right to lie and cheat. If you are cheating, then you are a coward that cannot stand up for yourself and ask for what you need. There is no excuse for cheating, I don’t care how bad the relationship is. Oh, and for those ignorant men that made comments about women needing to be better in bed or losing weight, there are just as many gorgeous women being cheated on as those that are overweight. The problem is men who have no integrity and the dumb women who go after them.
December 15th, 2009 at 3:04 pm
I think your company should really be taken down. We live in Canada. Canada was founded by Christians.
If your going to have an affair - it’s not ok. And it’s not ok to have it thrown in our children s faces. Grow up - this has nothing to do with freedom - freedom is having the right to say no to marriage - and if your unfortunate enough to be miserable in the one your in, you have the right to be divorced -. that is freedom. Your company does not have the right to stuff infidelity down our children s throats, and disguise it as a holiday. Affairs hurt families and you are false advertising.
January 27th, 2010 at 8:09 am
I think if you are not happy in your relationship than you should just leave that person , not go on a website and start cheating on them …..this site should be taken off its just gross. To the person who created this site how would you feel if your wife/husband were to do this to you ????Marriage is about a commitment and if you can’t be man (or women)enough to do that then don’t get married at all. To the men who said that this site was a good idea I feel sorry for the wifes that you all have married and your children at that. They won’t let gay’s or lesbian marry because it’s not right , but straight couples having sex with people that are not the person they married is!!!!!
February 1st, 2010 at 6:44 pm
I am a 21 years old and 5 months pregnant. Just found out the father of my baby (my boyfriend that loves me so much) visits this website regularly. Not only that but exchanged phone numbers and has been texting a 36 year old woman WHILE we were at dinner. He is 22 years old, told this woman he was single and did not mention anything about having a baby on the way. I am disgusted and sick to my stomach that anyone would ever betray me like this.
February 2nd, 2010 at 12:44 am
This website is a disgrace!!! Really why is this world coming to? My bf jus recently made a profile on there needless to say he was caught a day or two later..lol.. SO it is easy to catch them if you have their email address and catch the emails.. But even with that said, what bothers me is, yeah he only had it for a very short amount of time..I got on his profile..he hadn’t put pics up or anything it talked to anyone yet….but jus in those few days…ALL trust was gone..I can only imagine his intentions..it can and will destroy relationships…and to the dumbass guys who posted above me..I’m only 24…still have a great body..and needless to say I’m still VERY active..and he’s the one who’s 10 yrs older than me!!!! He lucked out to be with me….but now his luck has RUN OUT!!! He got caught and thought he wouldn’t!! I can do way better..guys like him are sick..and I don’t think it has anything to do with our looks, how good we treat them or how much we put out…I dnt think people like him will ever be satisfied with their own live and that’s their own problem…but not mine thank god!!! If I love someone I would never be caught doing something like this…these people have issues within themselves… I have a feeling this website is not gonna make it much longer….it’s way to easy to catch people..therfore only the people who are really desperate will be on here…it’s kinda like prostitution online…I hope these cheaters catch each others diseases…at least that way hopefully they can keep it within their own lil Ashely madsion group!!! Lol… So gross!!!!
February 17th, 2010 at 1:13 pm
I just have to say this web site is a BAD thing… My heart hurts so much
I was online the other day and found the Ashley M web page in my BF fav’s I made up a fake account and sent him a MSG he wrote back giving me his email address, AIM and Yahoo account names so I could contact him. I made up a fake account and contacted him today. I am so upset by this all I am 5 mos prego. I do every thing I can for him… Cook, Clean all the good girlfriend things. Our sex life is great and getting better but it has changed a bit from whe I found out I was prego. but things have been getting much better for us. He made me belive he was happy with me and our life. I do so much for this man and for him to talk to other girls this way kills me. I just dont understand why he would do this to me… and our little girl on the way. I found out he had cheated on his ex wife for year but not until I found out we where habing a baby. I expressed my fear that he might cheat on me and he got all upset 
telling me that that was his past and that he would not be it to me. I dont blam the web-page I blam the Guy 
as much as I dont want to leave my bf I know what i have to do for me and my 4 year old son. It kills me that he has done this to me.
I dont know how to bring this all up to him??
I dont know how to step away from him and be mad at him I truly love him…
Im so hurt its not even funny.
March 9th, 2010 at 4:04 pm
hi my friend or others-my love rose has been abused? not going into details, she is my 1st. true love, she is all around beautifull bella no1 sunshine-we both are christians, we seen this site its very crazzzzie -we pray everyone get saved ok jeus is lord amen we have a special relationship-she is given my heart pure love ok-she is a swedish Italiano disabled of abuse and the man is lost his private part peyronies-maybe father let him know friends-u can write her cheer up darling gal rose we be married soon lords will she makes me sing-she is a singer grand everything sex bonus ok yesterday gone-read bible tells u so, we both met wright cross from each other-she prayed 4 a christian hubbie and pure love-she hasit folks-I bought her heart diamond carat but she loves me not ring? ok question she is scred of men? but she been better since I take it slowley”"”" tony scred her bad-still police waiting 4 him-she only disabled because of him-her other hubbie died tumor he lova her but abbuse still but she forgives-she is happier now more than ever-she my 1st. and last love folks hope everyone learns from this site-we new too this-some lady put her on here-she did not no her haed hurts of abuse-she getting better-she sings grand lika angel she I do everything work hard 4 her and come home cook at times-do rubs and etc. im a blessed man she loves me dearley-we all make mistakes-we cant judge-im dosiel ,she is near me im so close too rose many comes to her-she says nothing-they talk dirty she crys and she bashfull-jen her friend puts her number on here or chats it hurts her-she says nothing -just wants a friend well god bless all we are blessed she says muah love hope u get saved -rose&allan forever amen.
April 6th, 2010 at 2:33 am
Hi, Every Body, We are at the end of days. (JESUS) GOD hates the Cheating. GOD destroys the 2 big cities (Sadum and Amoura) by sky fires - Everybody know that from bible - He likes Girl is to have one husband only forever, and the gentleman is to have one wife only, which is very healthy for themselves, for their families, and their children. All people who are cheating for the first time, the y will hate themselves, and the other cheat partner. It’s like animals when they are not caring their original wife, and just do sex. But may be animals are better than human in sex. They do six to stay alive and get their children, but Human are just to feel happy for seconds, and put their powers for something useless.
Please invest your power in something useful, take care of your wife, or your husband, and children. Go to Coptic Egyptian Orthodox Church near to your home, ask fathers about help. Try to live in your life as a proper Christians, Pray to GOD to forgive you and start new life immediately.
Happy Easter.
GOD is happy for everyone who listen and do his words, He can give us the power to do a so beautiful things on the Earth, and this is will be the true happiness for ever here on the world and above at heaven with GOD.
May 2nd, 2010 at 8:50 am
god is great and he has given the right in bed to enjoyand in the presence of husband if the wife has a sex with his friend the husband is not less than god
May 29th, 2010 at 7:09 am
I am actually here looking at these posts because I read some stranger’s burden this site has caused. I have no idea why I am posting.. I have been in relationships before where I give the guy plenty of sex, did exactly what he wanted and asked me to do, been kinky and somehow STILL blamed myself for the fact that he still cheated.. I just don’t understand why… WHY men AND women get married if they have intentions of cheating in the first place.. Marriage is about joining one man - one woman - together.. exclusively.. It isn’t about one man, one woman and 20+ prostitutes (male OR female) or whatever.. I hope to God that my marriage doesn’t go here.. I am thankful to have the loving caring husband that I have.. Lies and cheating and dishonesty and deceit and unfaithfulness should be put away when you find your other self.. When you join in marriage, that’s just it, you become ONE with someone else.. You need to share everything with your partner.. No matter if it’s something as small as picking your nose.. There CANNOT be facts hidden in marriage.. It’s not only bad for the person who is humiliated by not knowing, it’s also the person hiding the horrible secret that will one day consume them.. I really hope all you men (and women) who come here to find sex find your sex, and get punishment whether it’s your spouse finding out or diseases or just plain guilt to the point of suicide.. I just hope you don’t give any diseases to your spouse.. If you start cheating, and you aren’t going to leave your spouse or tell them, QUIT SLEEPING WITH YOUR SPOUSE!!!.. Your spouse is at home being faithful to you - trusting you - trying to be good to you and make things work out - they do NOT deserve to get aids or some other disease from your stupid actions.. Get help.. Be honest.. I don’t know what else to say.. I’m just thankful that I don’t have to deal with this.. I just wish people weren’t so disgusting about this kind of thing.. Women and men should not be considered like eating at the same restaurant for the rest of your life, and if you feel that way, don’t get married or get into a “committed” relationship.. If all you want is sex, more power to you, but that’s all you should get.. you’ll probably get diseases too, but I wish the spouses who get diseases from their partner cheating on them would take their cheating partner to court and sue their A$$ES for giving them a disease.. PLEASE RETHINK THIS.. AND IF YOU ARE MARRIED, GET DIVORCED, AND IF YOU ARE ENGAGED, DON’T GET MARRIED.. MARRIAGE AND CHEATING DO NOT BELONG TOGETHER!!! WHY IS THIS NOT POSTING????
June 29th, 2010 at 9:39 pm
I just found out my boyfriend is a member on this site. We have had similar issued before where he SWEARS he has done nothing, only flirted online. I have no issue with looking at scantily clad/naked women online. What I do have a problem with is finding REAL LIVE people who may want to actually cheat on their spouse with him! I have not yet confronted him about this, we have nearly all of his family here this weekend and plan to do it after that to save him that embarrassment. The Ashley Madison website is mostly attached men and women looking for something on the side. Sure, there give you the option to choose single and looking, but why wouldn’t these people go to a cheaper site or one like e-harmony or if they’re into only sex, adultfriendfinder? Why Ashley Madison who is known for affairs? Their slogan is after all “Life is short, have an affair” Really?! The site is not cheap either - the packages are $49.99 all the way up to $150. They even have an “escape” button in case someone walks in on you so you can exit the screen really quick.
This is so extremely hurtful, we live together, we share our lives together. I have always had a more active sex drive than him, I assumed that was just him. Now I know better. No matter how well I take care of myself, he is more interested in cheap sex with a stranger than sex with me. I thought we were the loves of eachothers lives. The only way I can see to stay with him now is if he agrees to go to counseling and turn over all forms of electronic devices - iphone, laptop, email, etc…to be monitored. Its disgusting that once every six months or so I will check his email (Yes I know that is awful) and more often than not by a quick review of the trash folder I can find ashley madison, secret facebook messages, etc….Are all men pigs?
July 24th, 2010 at 10:48 pm
I’ve been married almost 3 years. My wife has sex with me maybe once a month if i’m lucky. Usually I’ll masturabate and hope she’ll participate in that. If she does she’ll tell me she feels forced. She won’t talk about it. I don’t know what to do.