12 Months Ahead

  • Decide on the budget
  • Reserve ceremony
  • Work on guest list for a rough count
  • Visit reception sites and reserve one
  • Hire wedding consultant for help with all planning or just for the day

9 to 12 Months Ahead

  • Shop for and order wedding gown, veil and accessories
  • Compile guest list
  • Choose attendants
  • Select bridesmaids’ attire
  • Plan details of reception: colors, decorations, balloons, etc.
  • Select photographer
  • Select videographer
  • Select band or DJ for reception
  • Discuss honeymoon plans
  • Mail save-the-date cards if necessary
  • Get engagement photo taken

6 to 9 Months Ahead

  • Reserve wedding day transportation
  • Register for gifts at one to three stores
  • Book musicians for ceremony
  • Select florist
  • Select caterer
  • Reserve party rental equipment (table, tent, chairs, etc.)
  • Order wedding cake
  • Order invitations, personal stationery and thank you notes
  • Reserve accommodations for out-of-town guests
  • Finalize honeymoon plans (get your passport if needed!)

4 to 6 Months Ahead

  • Order men’s formal wear
  • Book stylist or salon for bridal party hair, nails and make-up
  • Select and purchase guest favors
  • Find and reserve rehearsal dinner location
  • Reserve accommodations for wedding night
  • Finalize guest list

2 to 4 Months Ahead

  • Address wedding invitations
  • Buy and wrap attendants’ gifts
  • Buy wedding rings and order engraving
  • Announce engagement in local newspapers
  • Confirm delivery dates of bridal gown and bridesmaids’ dresses
  • Meet with caterer to discuss menu
  • Select ceremony music, readings and vows and meet with officiant
  • Arrange ceremony rehearsal and notify participants

1 to 2 Months Ahead

  • Call county clerk’s office for marriage license details, and schedule date to obtain
  • Mail invitations
  • Arrange for final fittings on your gown
  • Make reservations for bridesmaids’ luncheon
  • Confirm honeymoon arrangements
  • Record gifts received and write thank you notes promptly
  • Prepare printed program for ceremony
  • Start reception seating chart and placecards
  • Purchase wedding accessories (guest book and pen, unity candle, toasting glasses, cake knife and server, and flower girl/ring bearer accessories)

2 to 4 Weeks Ahead

  • Arrange for professionals to preserve your gown and bridal bouquet
  • Follow up on missing RSVP’s and finish the seating chart and place cards
  • Confirm final guest count to caterer and reception site
  • Write rehearsal dinner and wedding toasts
  • Confirm honeymoon arrangements

1 Week Ahead

  • Have final consultation with caterer, florist, musicians, photographer and videographer
  • Host bridesmaids’ luncheon
  • Begin packing for honeymoon
  • Put fees due on the wedding day in envelopes, for the best man to distribute

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